Summary
The Golden BachelorstarGerry Turner is once again coming under fire for an Instagram post after his divorce from Theresa Nist, this time for a Father’s Day message. Gerry, a 72-year-old retired restaurateur from Hudson, Indiana, and Theresa, a 70-year-old financial services professional from Shrewsbury, New Jersey, got married on August 25, 2025, in a live, televised event called the Golden Wedding. However, just three months later, they announced that they were getting a divorce because neither of them wanted to leave their family, so they couldn’t decide where to live.TheirGolden Bachelordivorcehas now been finalized.
“Change your name from goldengerryturner to losergerryturner.”
In an Instagram post,Gerryshared details about how he spent Father’s Day. Gerry’s caption read,“Another great Father’s Day. The best daughters a dad could ask for, the best dad a son could ever have, and the best golf buddies on earth. Thanks to all who made this a wonderful Father’s Day.“Some fans slammed Gerry in the comments section, including one who wrote,“Such a narcissistic caption… per usual… everything ‘grand’ wasn’t it????“and another who said,“Change your name from goldengerryturner to losergerryturner.“However, many fans defended Gerry, insisting that it’s time to give him a break.
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Gerry Turner’s Father Never Appeared On The Golden Bachelor
Everett Turner Was Unable To Attend The Golden Wedding
Gerry’s post included three photographs, including one of his two daughters, Angie and Jenny, one of him and his 92-year-old dad, Everett, and one from the golf outing.Everett never appeared onThe Golden Bachelor, and he didn’t attend the Golden Wedding because he was unable to travel due to his health. However, Gerry sent a small replica of his and Theresa’s wedding cake to Everett’s home, so that he could participate in the wedding. Everett also shared that he hadGolden Bachelorwatch parties during every episode.
Gerry Has Been Trying To Change His Image
Fans Continue To Attack Him No Matter What He Posts
Since Gerry and Theresa announced their divorce,it appears that Gerry is trying to change his image with wholesome and family-oriented Instagram posts. However, the posts are met with backlash from fans who are still accusing him of chasing fame and being fake. In an Instagram post,Gerrylashed out at someone who left a negative comment about his charity work for AGAPE of Fishers, Indiana, an organization that provides therapy for children with disabilities using horses. The person wrote,“Who cares? Your few months of fame are up.”
Gerry responded passionately to the fan, writing,“You don’t care that challenged kids can find therapy to help them learn to walk? Or to learn how to speak? This is a charity for innocent kids working hard to be normal as they can be. I forgive your insensitivity.“Gerry was right to be upsetthat this person couldn’t look pastThe Golden Bachelorin order to see that he’s doing good work to help others.
Fans also slammedGerrywhen he posted about his family celebrating Memorial Day together. He shared a photograph of himself and his family on a boat on the water, but some fans left negative comments stating that Gerry was acting as though his relationship and divorce with Theresa had never happened. However, others defended him, and were happy to see him spending quality time with his beautiful family.
Fans lost trust in Gerry afterThe Hollywood Reporterpublished an exposé that alleged that he’d lied about being retired and was actually working as a handyman right before the show. Even worse,the article accused Gerry of lying about his dating history, alleging that he’d dated a woman for several years after his wife Toni suddenly passed away six years before the show due to a bacterial infection.
However,The Golden Bachelormade it seem as though the show was the first time that Gerry had dated. In addition, the report stated that Gerry had broken up with the woman because she’d gained weight before his reunion.This, combined with his divorce from Theresa, turned Gerry into a villain in many fans' eyes. No matter if Gerry posts about his family celebrating holidays such as Memorial Day or Father’s Day or his charity work, some fans still continue to attack him.
It would’ve been very interesting to see the dynamic between Gerry and Everett duringThe Golden Bachelor. While the show made a big deal out of the hometown and final dates being different from the traditionalBachelorandBacheloretteshows because Gerry and the contestants were meeting each other’s children and grandchildren rather than their parents, it neglected to mention that Gerry actually still has his father in his life.It would’ve been intriguing to see Everett’s reactionto the process of the show, since he’s from an underrepresented generation in theBachelorfranchise.
It’s a shame that fans are still slamming Gerry every chance that they get afterThe Golden Bachelor. It seems that no matter what he does, he can’t change his image in some fans' eyes. However, it’s nice to see that some fans are defending him. People have to remember thatThe Golden Bacheloris a TV show, and the real-life Gerry could never live up to the expectations that arose when the producers created the character of Gerry Turner for the show. If Theresa can move on from their divorce, then fans should too.Gerry deserves a second chance.
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